“Elisha’s Encounters with Children” (3)
“Now there cried a certain woman…unto Elisha, …Thy servant my husband is dead; …and the creditor is come to take unto him my two sons to be bondmen.” II Kings 4:1
In this intriguing story, Elisha crosses paths with a widow and her two sons. She represents a parent who realizes she is about to lose her children. She wisely admits she has a problem that is too big for her to resolve and goes to the man of God. After admitting the seriousness of the situation, she is willing to make the adjustments necessary that were advised her by Elisha. The prophet inquired initially what she had (vs. 2). There was a shortage of what was needed and she was instructed to get some help (vs. 3). In her case, it was a scarcity of vessels. She borrowed all she could and her two boys watched God fill the vessels with oil. She was told to sell the accumulated product, pay her debt and enjoy the bounty with the boys! (vss. 5-7).
We live in a sad day of single parenthood. Some are like the widow here, but multiplied thousands are from the devastation of divorce. As a parent, it would behoove you to realize the situation you are in and endeavor to rectify it by engaging your children in the task to keep the “wolf from the door” and the family intact.
The modern home resides in a time of famine–a famine of mammoth proportions; perhaps not a shortage of food, but of faith. Folk, this poor woman and mother was able to provide for her family through character, hard work and adherence to Bible principles. Surely she was a widow with Proverbs 31 attributes and you can be one too by the grace of God. –Dr. Tim Green
The best and most important decision we can make as parents, if we must go through divorce, is to “stick like glue” to our Lord Jesus Christ, in His Word daily, attending a good Bible believing, preaching church, and calling on our brothers and sisters in Christ for support through the turmoil. Having gone through the monster of divorce, I would not wish it on my worst enemy, especially if children are involved. When we let the devil deceive us about our self worth and leave the Lord and His teaching support and our church family, we most assuredly may be dragged back into the world and its evils. I see this happening to children today, and it breaks my heart. We must stay close to God and set the Godly example our children need to see, as God works in our lives to bring us through our trials. They will be more likely to follow our example and stay close to Him as well. If we do not, they are more likely to be satan’s bondmen!